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The Relationship Coaching School Podcast is for coaches, therapists, and growth-minded clients who want to master relationships and help their clients master relationships. Hosted by Jayson Gaddis, a world-class coach and trainer, this podcast dives into what sparks real change, what coaching methods actually work, and how to get results in our most important relationships.
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The Relationship Coaching School Podcast is for coaches, therapists, and growth-minded clients who want to master relationships and help their clients master relationships. Hosted by Jayson Gaddis, a world-class coach and trainer, this podcast dives into what sparks real change, what coaching methods actually work, and how to get results in our most important relationships.
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Suffering & The Human Journey with Keith Kurlander - 545
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<p>Keith Kurlander joins Jayson to explore why people suffer and how we can move closer to authenticity. Is personal development ever narcissistic? Why do so many people chase quick fixes instead of real education and growth? Keith and Jayson discuss the importance of connecting to your authentic self and what makes relationships thrive with greater ease.</p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>0:49 - Why do people suffer so much?</li><li>8:00 - Being authentic to yourself</li><li>24:00 - Can person development be narcissistic?</li><li>38:00 - Seek education, not quick fixes</li><li>58:30 - Getting connected to your authentic self</li><li>1:10:00 - Couples who have an easy time</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://keithkurlander.com/"><u>Keith Kurlander, MA, LPC -</u></a></li><li><a href="https://psychiatryinstitute.com/"><u>Integrative Psychiatry Institute - Psychedelic Therapy Training</u></a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/keithkurlander.ma/"><u>https://www.instagram.com/keithkurlander.ma/</u></a><br></li></ul><ul><li><a href="https://relationshipschool.com/">The Relationship School</a></li><li>Follow Jayson on social media:</li></ul><ul><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaysongaddis">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/JaysonGaddis">YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaysongaddis">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jaysongaddis">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/JayGaddis">Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jaysongaddisfanpage/">Facebook</a></li></ul></ul>
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<p>Keith Kurlander joins Jayson to explore why people suffer and how we can move closer to authenticity. Is personal development ever narcissistic? Why do so many people chase quick fixes instead of real education and growth? Keith and Jayson discuss the importance of connecting to your authentic self and what makes relationships thrive with greater ease.</p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>0:49 - Why do people suffer so much?</li><li>8:00 - Being authentic to yourself</li><li>24:00 - Can person development be narcissistic?</li><li>38:00 - Seek education, not quick fixes</li><li>58:30 - Getting connected to your authentic self</li><li>1:10:00 - Couples who have an easy time</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://keithkurlander.com/"><u>Keith Kurlander, MA, LPC -</u></a></li><li><a href="https://psychiatryinstitute.com/"><u>Integrative Psychiatry Institute - Psychedelic Therapy Training</u></a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/keithkurlander.ma/"><u>https://www.instagram.com/keithkurlander.ma/</u></a><br></li></ul><ul><li><a href="https://relationshipschool.com/">The Relationship School</a></li><li>Follow Jayson on social media:</li></ul><ul><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaysongaddis">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/JaysonGaddis">YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaysongaddis">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jaysongaddis">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/JayGaddis">Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jaysongaddisfanpage/">Facebook</a></li></ul></ul>
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Stop Avoiding Difficult Conversations (Do This Instead) - Jayson Gaddis - 544
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<p>Avoiding hard conversations doesn’t make them go away. It builds resentment, distance, and unresolved tension. In this episode, Jayson unpacks why avoiding conflict costs more than it saves, how to approach difficult conversations with honesty and care, and why vulnerability is the key to repair.</p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>1:00 - The cost of not having difficult conversations</li><li>7:00 - How to have hard difficult conversations</li><li>10:50 - Leading with vulnerability</li><li>13:00 - Learning to repair after difficult conversations</li></ul><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://relationshipschool.com/">The Relationship School</a></li><li>Follow Jayson on social media:</li></ul><ul><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaysongaddis">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/JaysonGaddis">YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaysongaddis">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jaysongaddis">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/JayGaddis">Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jaysongaddisfanpage/">Facebook</a></li></ul></ul>
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Wed, 01 Oct 2025 11:00:00 GMT
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<p>Avoiding hard conversations doesn’t make them go away. It builds resentment, distance, and unresolved tension. In this episode, Jayson unpacks why avoiding conflict costs more than it saves, how to approach difficult conversations with honesty and care, and why vulnerability is the key to repair.</p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>1:00 - The cost of not having difficult conversations</li><li>7:00 - How to have hard difficult conversations</li><li>10:50 - Leading with vulnerability</li><li>13:00 - Learning to repair after difficult conversations</li></ul><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://relationshipschool.com/">The Relationship School</a></li><li>Follow Jayson on social media:</li></ul><ul><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaysongaddis">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/JaysonGaddis">YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaysongaddis">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jaysongaddis">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/JayGaddis">Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jaysongaddisfanpage/">Facebook</a></li></ul></ul>
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The World I Want to See - Jayson Gaddis - 543
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<p>In the wake of the Charlie Kirk shooting and the Evergreen High School shooting, Jayson reflects on the wave of hatred and blame that erupts online after tragedy. From a Buddhist perspective, he explores how we can stop seeing others as the enemy, reclaim our focus, and begin creating the kind of world we actually want to live in.</p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>0:44 - Hatred and blame on social media</li><li>1:41 - A Buddhist perspective</li><li>3:53 - Stop seeing other people as the enemy</li><li>5:46 - Controlling your focus</li><li>7:56 - The world I want to live in</li></ul><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://relationshipschool.com/">The Relationship School</a></li><li>Follow Jayson on social media:</li></ul><ul><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaysongaddis">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/JaysonGaddis">YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaysongaddis">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jaysongaddis">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/JayGaddis">Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jaysongaddisfanpage/">Facebook</a></li></ul></ul>
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Wed, 17 Sep 2025 15:42:30 GMT
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<p>In the wake of the Charlie Kirk shooting and the Evergreen High School shooting, Jayson reflects on the wave of hatred and blame that erupts online after tragedy. From a Buddhist perspective, he explores how we can stop seeing others as the enemy, reclaim our focus, and begin creating the kind of world we actually want to live in.</p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>0:44 - Hatred and blame on social media</li><li>1:41 - A Buddhist perspective</li><li>3:53 - Stop seeing other people as the enemy</li><li>5:46 - Controlling your focus</li><li>7:56 - The world I want to live in</li></ul><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://relationshipschool.com/">The Relationship School</a></li><li>Follow Jayson on social media:</li></ul><ul><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaysongaddis">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/JaysonGaddis">YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaysongaddis">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jaysongaddis">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/JayGaddis">Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jaysongaddisfanpage/">Facebook</a></li></ul></ul>
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How to Get Over Your Anger With Your Parents - Jayson Gaddis - 537
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<p>Jayson dives into the challenge of getting over anger toward your parents. Did your parents drop the ball in ways that still affect you today? How does your past shape your present relationships? What does it actually look like to move from victim to author? And how do you know when you've truly let resentment go?</p><p>Jayson also explores why it’s important not to focus solely on the negative, how growth can happen through adversity, and the personal cost of holding on to anger. Don’t miss this powerful solo episode.</p><p><br /><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>1:50 - Did your parents drop the ball?</li><li>4:45 - Your past impacts your present</li><li>8:13 - Moving from victim to author</li><li>11:04 - How do you know when you’ve let resentment go</li><li>14:53 - Don’t solely focus on negatives</li><li>18:03 - Growth through adversity</li><li>20:53 - The personal cost of anger and resentment</li></ul><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://relationshipschool.com/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Relationship School</a></li><li>Follow Jayson on social media:</li></ul><ul><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaysongaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/JaysonGaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaysongaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jaysongaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/JayGaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jaysongaddisfanpage/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></li></ul></ul>
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Tue, 29 Jul 2025 11:00:00 GMT
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<p>Jayson dives into the challenge of getting over anger toward your parents. Did your parents drop the ball in ways that still affect you today? How does your past shape your present relationships? What does it actually look like to move from victim to author? And how do you know when you've truly let resentment go?</p><p>Jayson also explores why it’s important not to focus solely on the negative, how growth can happen through adversity, and the personal cost of holding on to anger. Don’t miss this powerful solo episode.</p><p><br /><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>1:50 - Did your parents drop the ball?</li><li>4:45 - Your past impacts your present</li><li>8:13 - Moving from victim to author</li><li>11:04 - How do you know when you’ve let resentment go</li><li>14:53 - Don’t solely focus on negatives</li><li>18:03 - Growth through adversity</li><li>20:53 - The personal cost of anger and resentment</li></ul><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://relationshipschool.com/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Relationship School</a></li><li>Follow Jayson on social media:</li></ul><ul><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaysongaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/JaysonGaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaysongaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jaysongaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/JayGaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jaysongaddisfanpage/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></li></ul></ul>
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Psychedelics: Revolutionary Healing Tool or a Spiritual Bypass? - Dr. Will Van Derveer - 534
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<p>Dr. Will Van Derveer joins Jayson to discuss the uses and misuses of psychedelic drugs. He shares his background, his work in integrative psychiatry, and the limitations of conventional mental health treatments. Dr. Van Derveer also explores the therapeutic potential of ketamine, MDMA, LSD, psilocybin, and more.</p><p>Are there people who shouldn’t use psychedelics? If you’re going to use them, what are some best practices? Don’t miss this enlightening episode.</p><p>Will Van Derveer, MD is a leader in the adoption of integrative psychiatry practices globally. After discovering that his conventional psychiatric training was inadequate to answer many of the challenges facing his patients, Dr. Van Derveer began to learn how to resolve the root causes of common psychiatric problems such as depression, anxiety, and insomnia.</p><p>Dr. Van Derveer has published research on MDMA-assisted psychotherapy for PTSD and written book chapters in the fields of ketamine-assisted psychotherapy and other clinical applications of psychedelic compounds. His passion is finding effective relief from psychological suffering using a vast array of the most natural approaches possible. In addition to traditional medical training, He is a meditation instructor and has trained in shamanism, EMDR, somatic experiencing, internal family systems, cognitive behavioral therapy, and hypnosis.</p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>1:09 - Will's journey</li><li>3:24 - Limitations of conventional mental health treatments</li><li>14:56 - Will's journey with psychedelics</li><li>22:16 - Ketamine</li><li>27:08 - MDMA</li><li>31:09 - Other psychedelics</li><li>42:20 - Jayson's experiance with psychedelics</li><li>46:02 - Problems in the psychedelics scene</li><li>57:02 - Psychedelics as part of a long-term treatment plan</li><li>1:00:00 - Who does NOT benefit from psychedelics?</li><li>1:04:00 - Tips for using psychedelics</li><li>1:07:00 - Where to find Will</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/will.vanderveer.md/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Will's Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://x.com/willvanderveer" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Will's X</a> </li><li><a href="https://lp2.relationshipschool.com/rct-cert-schedule-a-call">Relationship Coach Training</a></li><li>Follow Jayson on social media:</li></ul><ul><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaysongaddis">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/JaysonGaddis">YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaysongaddis">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jaysongaddis">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/JayGaddis">Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jaysongaddisfanpage/">Facebook</a></li></ul></ul>
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<p>Dr. Will Van Derveer joins Jayson to discuss the uses and misuses of psychedelic drugs. He shares his background, his work in integrative psychiatry, and the limitations of conventional mental health treatments. Dr. Van Derveer also explores the therapeutic potential of ketamine, MDMA, LSD, psilocybin, and more.</p><p>Are there people who shouldn’t use psychedelics? If you’re going to use them, what are some best practices? Don’t miss this enlightening episode.</p><p>Will Van Derveer, MD is a leader in the adoption of integrative psychiatry practices globally. After discovering that his conventional psychiatric training was inadequate to answer many of the challenges facing his patients, Dr. Van Derveer began to learn how to resolve the root causes of common psychiatric problems such as depression, anxiety, and insomnia.</p><p>Dr. Van Derveer has published research on MDMA-assisted psychotherapy for PTSD and written book chapters in the fields of ketamine-assisted psychotherapy and other clinical applications of psychedelic compounds. His passion is finding effective relief from psychological suffering using a vast array of the most natural approaches possible. In addition to traditional medical training, He is a meditation instructor and has trained in shamanism, EMDR, somatic experiencing, internal family systems, cognitive behavioral therapy, and hypnosis.</p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>1:09 - Will's journey</li><li>3:24 - Limitations of conventional mental health treatments</li><li>14:56 - Will's journey with psychedelics</li><li>22:16 - Ketamine</li><li>27:08 - MDMA</li><li>31:09 - Other psychedelics</li><li>42:20 - Jayson's experiance with psychedelics</li><li>46:02 - Problems in the psychedelics scene</li><li>57:02 - Psychedelics as part of a long-term treatment plan</li><li>1:00:00 - Who does NOT benefit from psychedelics?</li><li>1:04:00 - Tips for using psychedelics</li><li>1:07:00 - Where to find Will</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/will.vanderveer.md/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Will's Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://x.com/willvanderveer" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Will's X</a> </li><li><a href="https://lp2.relationshipschool.com/rct-cert-schedule-a-call">Relationship Coach Training</a></li><li>Follow Jayson on social media:</li></ul><ul><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaysongaddis">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/JaysonGaddis">YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaysongaddis">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jaysongaddis">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/JayGaddis">Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jaysongaddisfanpage/">Facebook</a></li></ul></ul>
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Evolved Coaching with Navy Seal Mark Divine PhD - 532
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<p>What if today were your last day on Earth? Jayson is joined by author and retired Navy SEAL Commander Mark Divine for his 3rd time on the show to discuss finding your purpose on this planet, meditation vs. psychedelics, developing mental and physical toughness, and much more. Don’t miss Mark’s exhortation for coaches at the end.</p><p>Mark Divine is a retired Navy SEAL, bestselling author, and transformative thought leader, inspiring compassion, resilience, and fortitude. His distinguished military career spanned two decades with tours in Iraq, the Middle East, and the Korean Peninsula, culminating in his retirement in as a Commander. Beyond the battlefield, Mark founded SEALFIT, where he blends Navy SEAL training with innovative mental toughness and mindfulness techniques. Through the Unbeatable Mind program he has trained thousands in his "Kokoro" whole mind system, and through the Mark Divine Courage Foundation, he aids veterans seeking post-traumatic growth. Mark holds a PhD in Global Leadership from Pepperdine University and resides in Encinitas, California, with his wife, Sandy, and Husky Mahina.</p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>5:15 - Horizontal vs. vertical development</li><li>13:04 - The importance of training your body</li><li>19:06 - You are not your thoughts</li><li>24:08 - Vertical development takes time</li><li>29:24 - What are you on this planet for?</li><li>37:39 - Don’t feed the fear wolf</li><li>41:05 - Meditation vs psychedelics</li><li>45:33 - What if today is your last day?</li><li>48:48 - Why coaches need to be doing the work</li><li>56:53 - AI in coaching</li></ul><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://markdivine.com/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Mark Divine – Navy SEAL Speaker, Author, Founder of Unbeatable Mind</a></li><li>Follow Jayson on social media:</li></ul><ul><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaysongaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/JaysonGaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaysongaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jaysongaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/JayGaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jaysongaddisfanpage/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></li></ul></ul>
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Tue, 24 Jun 2025 11:00:00 GMT
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<p>What if today were your last day on Earth? Jayson is joined by author and retired Navy SEAL Commander Mark Divine for his 3rd time on the show to discuss finding your purpose on this planet, meditation vs. psychedelics, developing mental and physical toughness, and much more. Don’t miss Mark’s exhortation for coaches at the end.</p><p>Mark Divine is a retired Navy SEAL, bestselling author, and transformative thought leader, inspiring compassion, resilience, and fortitude. His distinguished military career spanned two decades with tours in Iraq, the Middle East, and the Korean Peninsula, culminating in his retirement in as a Commander. Beyond the battlefield, Mark founded SEALFIT, where he blends Navy SEAL training with innovative mental toughness and mindfulness techniques. Through the Unbeatable Mind program he has trained thousands in his "Kokoro" whole mind system, and through the Mark Divine Courage Foundation, he aids veterans seeking post-traumatic growth. Mark holds a PhD in Global Leadership from Pepperdine University and resides in Encinitas, California, with his wife, Sandy, and Husky Mahina.</p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>5:15 - Horizontal vs. vertical development</li><li>13:04 - The importance of training your body</li><li>19:06 - You are not your thoughts</li><li>24:08 - Vertical development takes time</li><li>29:24 - What are you on this planet for?</li><li>37:39 - Don’t feed the fear wolf</li><li>41:05 - Meditation vs psychedelics</li><li>45:33 - What if today is your last day?</li><li>48:48 - Why coaches need to be doing the work</li><li>56:53 - AI in coaching</li></ul><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://markdivine.com/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Mark Divine – Navy SEAL Speaker, Author, Founder of Unbeatable Mind</a></li><li>Follow Jayson on social media:</li></ul><ul><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaysongaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/JaysonGaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaysongaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jaysongaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/JayGaddis" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jaysongaddisfanpage/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></li></ul></ul>
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Coaching Reframes and Context with Master Coach John O’Connor
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<p>What does it mean to follow your deepest calling? How do you get clear on what actually matters and act on it today? Jayson sits down with executive coach John O’Connor to explore what it takes to create real transformation.</p><p>They get into symbolic sovereignty, creating a clear vision, and how deep callings can emerge from deep traumas. Jayson shares what it means to earn your black belt in relationships, they discuss why music is a powerful metaphor for life, and the one skill every facilitator needs. They also talk about entanglement, and having a shared vision with your partner. Stick around for grounded insights on leadership, connection, and showing up fully to the work only you can do.<br>John O’Connor is an executive coach and facilitator living in Boulder, Colorado. For more than a decade, John has coached the top CEOs and leaders in hedge funds, startups, and Fortune 500 companies. John embodies a masterful level of skill to create radical transformation. His coaching path emerged out of 17 years as a massage therapist, after working through tens of thousands of bodies, he developed a deep connection and curiosity to the unconscious mind, learning how to facilitate behavioral, emotional and mental change at the deepest level. John was a co-lead facilitator at the first two Open Source Retreats that helped lay the foundation for the EVRYMAN movement. He is also a certified NLP and hypnosis trainer, a certified master coach, creator of The Access Method, and author of the upcoming book <em>From Ordinary to Extraordinary</em>.</p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>1:23 - What is your deepest calling?</li><li>3:49 - Stepping out of time</li><li>8:54 - Creating a clear vision</li><li>10:43 - What are the three most important things you need to do today?</li><li>13:19 - Symbolic sovereignty</li><li>32:24 - How to get your black belt in relationships</li><li>37:36 - Music as a metaphor for relationships</li><li>45:48 - Having a shared vision</li><li>52:42 - Deep callings can emerge from deep traumas</li><li>58:56 - Dealing with entanglement</li><li>1:04:00 - An important skill for facilitators and coaches</li></ul><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li>Follow Jayson on social media:</li></ul><ul><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaysongaddis">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/JaysonGaddis">YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaysongaddis">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jaysongaddis">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/JayGaddis">Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jaysongaddisfanpage/">Facebook</a></li></ul></ul>
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Tue, 10 Jun 2025 11:00:00 GMT
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<p>What does it mean to follow your deepest calling? How do you get clear on what actually matters and act on it today? Jayson sits down with executive coach John O’Connor to explore what it takes to create real transformation.</p><p>They get into symbolic sovereignty, creating a clear vision, and how deep callings can emerge from deep traumas. Jayson shares what it means to earn your black belt in relationships, they discuss why music is a powerful metaphor for life, and the one skill every facilitator needs. They also talk about entanglement, and having a shared vision with your partner. Stick around for grounded insights on leadership, connection, and showing up fully to the work only you can do.<br>John O’Connor is an executive coach and facilitator living in Boulder, Colorado. For more than a decade, John has coached the top CEOs and leaders in hedge funds, startups, and Fortune 500 companies. John embodies a masterful level of skill to create radical transformation. His coaching path emerged out of 17 years as a massage therapist, after working through tens of thousands of bodies, he developed a deep connection and curiosity to the unconscious mind, learning how to facilitate behavioral, emotional and mental change at the deepest level. John was a co-lead facilitator at the first two Open Source Retreats that helped lay the foundation for the EVRYMAN movement. He is also a certified NLP and hypnosis trainer, a certified master coach, creator of The Access Method, and author of the upcoming book <em>From Ordinary to Extraordinary</em>.</p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>1:23 - What is your deepest calling?</li><li>3:49 - Stepping out of time</li><li>8:54 - Creating a clear vision</li><li>10:43 - What are the three most important things you need to do today?</li><li>13:19 - Symbolic sovereignty</li><li>32:24 - How to get your black belt in relationships</li><li>37:36 - Music as a metaphor for relationships</li><li>45:48 - Having a shared vision</li><li>52:42 - Deep callings can emerge from deep traumas</li><li>58:56 - Dealing with entanglement</li><li>1:04:00 - An important skill for facilitators and coaches</li></ul><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li>Follow Jayson on social media:</li></ul><ul><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaysongaddis">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/JaysonGaddis">YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaysongaddis">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jaysongaddis">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/JayGaddis">Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jaysongaddisfanpage/">Facebook</a></li></ul></ul>
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